Could Making Tough Choices Be A Gift? You may think that making difficult choices is a problem to be solved. But what if it is an amazing opportunity that we have been gifted? In the 1990s, psychologist Thomas Gilovich provided evidence for why it can be shortsighted...
Living A Meaningful Life Leading with structure is not the answer to living a meaningful life. There is a whole school out there instructing us to be positive and happy all the time. Imagine, for a moment, if instead of being told how to be and what to do, we simply...
What Does It Take to be the Healthiest You? There is an inner knowing we have been conditioned and trained to silence within ourselves when we downloaded the manual of life and it rarely included the path of being the healthiest you. It included deep programming of...
Questioning Starts with Each of Us A few days ago, in a conversation with a second-year law student from Madrid, I listened deeply not only to his words but also to the deep questioning of young people around him. He observed that while half his classmates may be...
Being Aware is A Conscious Choice What is the root of misunderstandings and conflict? Being aware that engaging in division means we are making a choice and often it is unconscious. So, is it simply people taking sides—whether it’s a marriage, kids and parents,...